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Leaders and conflict

As we saw yesterday, the great early 20th century management thinker Mary Parker Follett was a pioneer in the innovative and constructive use of conflict in organizations. She believed they should be resolved by neither domination nor compromise, but rather by integration. However, she was fully aware of the potential obstacles to its use.

A principal one is the presence in a situation of a strong individual leader. Follett saw that “the undue influence of leaders,” is “one of the chief obstacles to integration.” A self-aggrandizing leader may find it preferable, in order to reinforce or strengthen his or her partisan power base, to attempt to obtain an all-out win through domination, even when a clearly preferable, from an organizational viewpoint, integrative solution is available.

The legalistic and adversarial approach to conflict that so often results in what might be called competitive compromise, sometimes as overt as strikes and lockouts, is an all too obvious example of this. Leaders on one or both sides may pursue such approaches to gain limited tactical gains for themselves or their sides, or to better position themselves for the next conflict.

The benefit of using an integrative approach, when feasible, in dealing with conflict is obvious. Domination suppresses conflict, and compromise temporarily removes it. Integration, however, uses conflict to provide the traction that enables organizations to move beyond the conflict to a greater understanding of the organization’s nature and needs, and an optimal means of realizing them.

As we have seen, however, Follett knew that there are occasions when such a solution is not practical (because of, for example, the “undue influence of leaders”), or not feasible. But she also knew that it might not even be optimal. It might simply produce an additional way to perceive and deal with the conflict. Nevertheless, even that has value (if only in strengthening interparty relationships and interactions), and ought not to be missed merely because we are predisposed or driven to adversarial solutions.

It’s worth emphasizing again that Follett promoted integration as a means of dealing with, or (better) of using, a conflict – not of avoiding it. Conflict, properly perceived and exploited, is a potentially positive contributor to the vitality and progress of the organization. What’s more, it isn’t accomplished by yielding one’s interests to those of others – that’s just compromise.

The proper pursuit of integration of differences in order to constructively resolve conflict, according to Follett, “needs just as great a respect for your own view as for that of others, and a firm upholding of it until you are convinced. Mushy people are no more good at this than stubborn people.”

Undoubtedly many of you have heard of this approach as it is applied to negotiations. That is an excellent use, of course. But have you ever thought of it, as Follett did, as an every day organizational asset, with operational and design implications?

Follett even evaluated organizations on the quality of the conflicts they generated, and the constructive use they made of them. How does yours measure up?

This post is a part of a series. You can learn about and link to the other articles here: Conflict

Today’s tip: Speaking of leaders and dealing with conflict, please see this WSJ piece about Carl Icahn and Yahoo.

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4 Comments

  1. Wally Bock wrote:

    Wonderful post, Jim. You seem to be one of the few people who remember Mary Parker Follett and her work, though she may have been the first management consultant in the sense we use that term today.

    There will be conflicts any time you put more than one person in a confined space, whether that space is a family, a business or a sports team. The important thing is what happens when there is conflict. Do you recognize it or pretend it doesn’t exist? Do you deal with it or let it fester?

    Friday, July 25, 2008 at 11:59 pm | Permalink
  2. Jim Stroup wrote:

    Hi Wally,

    I am always revitalized by a review of Mary Parker Follett’s writing - she was truly a pioneer - a prophet of management. She was refreshingly open-minded and delightfully experessive, and remains without peer today in many vital subjects. I highly recommend her to practitioners and students of management today. This collection of her work is an excellent place to start (see my review here).

    You make an excellent point that conflict, of one sort or another, doesn’t merely happen, but is inevitable. So the question isn’t how to avoid something that is an inherent feature of the group, but what do do with it. Follett’s recommendations regarding that deserve continued study.

    Thanks, Wally, for this forceful emphasis of this important point.

    Saturday, July 26, 2008 at 12:15 pm | Permalink
  3. Jamie Notter wrote:

    Ack! You chose the week I was on vacation to write a series about conflict, my favorite subject! (My Master’s is in conflict resolution). I love your points, as usual, and I promise a longer reaction on my blog. But I will emphasize the point about inevitability. Conflict is both inevitable and good. People and systems cannot grow and develop without conflict. True, we often deal with it poorly, so many choose to avoid, but avoiding almost always makes it worse. Thanks for covering the topic!

    Monday, July 28, 2008 at 9:33 pm | Permalink
  4. Jim Stroup wrote:

    Hello Jamie,

    I’m confident that you enjoyed your vacation far more than you would have these posts hot off the press!

    Thank you for you kind comments - I look forward to more of your thinking on this topic at your own site.

    My vote for best line in your comment: “Conflict is both inevitable and good.” That’s an excellent article title - certainly something about which I hope we hear more from you.

    Thanks again for your visit and your observations!

    Tuesday, July 29, 2008 at 11:29 am | Permalink

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